Mr. Messbauer was born August 24, 1956 in Flushing, NY. He is the son of the late David and the late Joan (Thompson) Messbauer. Beloved husband of Paula. Devoted father of Keith, and Julie Goldstone (Joseph). Dear brother of Linda and Elaine Jansen (Thomas. Memorial visitation will be Friday, 2-5 & 7-9 pm at Charles J. O'Shea Funeral Home, 2515 N. Jerusalem Rd., East Meadow,NY. Memorial service will be at the funeral home at 8 pm.