Phyllis Ann Violano (née DeCato), 79, of North Bellmore, passed away on March 4, 2025. beloved wife of Joseph Violano. Cherished mother of Joseph Jr. (Carrie) and Michael (Kim). Her greatest joy was being a loving grandmother to her four grandchildren. Phyllis is also survived by her dear sister, Catherine Volpicelli.. Known for her sharp mind, she was always organized and excelled in everything she did—graduating first in her class and impressing all with her amazing memory. She believed in the success of those around her, always encouraging and uplifting others with her wisdom and kindness. A devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and sister, Phyllis dedicated her life to her family and to helping others achieve their best Phyllis’s love, strength, and unwavering support will be deeply missed by all who were fortunate to know her.